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Infinite Country by Patricia Engel | Thoughts

   Published : 2021   ||    Format : print   ||    Location : Colombia ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆   What was it about the country that kept everyone hostage to its fantasy? The previous month, on its own soil, an American man went to his job at a plant and gunned down fourteen coworkers, and last spring alone there were four different school shootings. A nation at war with itself, yet people still spoke of it as some kind of paradise.. Thoughts : Infinite Country follows two characters - young Talia, who at the beginning of this book, escapes a girl’s reform school in North Colombia so that she can make her previously booked flight to the US. Before she can do that, she needs to travel many miles to reach her father and get her ticket to the rest of her family. As we follow Talia’s treacherous journey south, we learn about how she ended up in the reform school in the first place and why half her family resides in the US. Infinite Country tells the story of her family through the other protagonist, El

This is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Tropper

We all start out so damn sure, thinking we've got the world on a string. If we ever stopped to think about the infinite number of ways we could be undone, we'd never leave our bedrooms. When Judd Foxman's father dies, his entire family arrives at his childhood home to sit shiva for seven days. It's been years since this family has been together and it is immediately obvious that they cannot really stand each other. Newly separated from his wife, Jen, after finding her in bed with his boss, Judd arrives alone, aware that he is currently the talk of the neighborhood. As he tries to put his life in order, it is thrown into shambles again when Jen comes announcing that she is pregnant. With his baby. A baby they've been waiting for forever. Eldest brother, Paul, and his wife, Alice, have been trying to have a baby for years - a fact that Alice doesn't let Judd forget seeing as Jen has managed to get pregnant twice. His younger brother, Phillip, who has not m

The Sunday Salon: A cold and rainy Fall morning

Now: 9.24 am / The baby is sleeping and every one else has just had breakfast. It's been raining for the past three days and while I don't mind this weather - it's a perfect excuse to stay home cozy - the husband is getting a bit restless because he'd rather be outside than be cooped up inside. Home: It's amazing how busy you are when there's a baby around. On weekdays, I get home around 5.30pm, feed the baby, play with her for a while, have dinner, take a shower, and then feed her again before sleeping - around 8-9pm. Shreya usually wakes up once during the night to feed, though for the last week, she has been waking up twice. Then I'm up at 6.30am, feed her again, before getting ready for work. This schedule is going to go kaput in January after my mom returns to India. Grateful for: My mom. She LOVES looking after the baby and would happily do it full-time, if needed. I wish she and I were staying in the same country - I will miss her when she retu

The Sunday Salon: A two-month old birthday and a road trip

Happy Sunday and Fall season! September 22 is officially the end of the summer season, here in the Northern hemisphere. I'm not sure how I feel about it yet because my summer was way too short - it passed in a blur of pregnancy tiredness and baby business. Still, it's hard not to love Fall and all that is associated with it. It's what comes after (winter and the dreary landscapes and all the heavy jackets) that makes me dread this quick ending of summer. Shreya is two months old today. How did that happen? She has her two month checkup tomorrow so we'll know how tall she is and how much she weighs. I'm sure she's in the 90+ percentile for both. She is right now learning how to use her fist for... sucking. Yep, the whole fist. I'm two months old today. I love to coo, stand, hear my humans talk, stare at bright stuff. Milestones: Slept all night, First outing, First smile. Two weekends ago, we had taken a road trip to Williamsburg, Norfolk, and

The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins

He never understood that it's possible to miss what you've never had, to mourn for it. By now, everyone must have heard about this book, if not actually read it. This book had a long waiting list and I wasn't initially keen on reading it. But there are only so many conversations you can join without saying you didn't read this book. Besides, over time, I began to get curious about the plot. The Girl on the Train was okay. Not great, and when I finally closed the book, I thought the plot was very silly and fabricated. Although I somewhat enjoyed the ride through the book, looking at the full picture once I finished the book didn't make me very happy. The Girl on the Train is the story of two women. Rachel, the titular character, has been divorced for a few years but she is yet to move on. She has been an alcoholic even before she got divorced and oftentimes she forgets what she has been up to whenever she is drunk. Every morning, she takes the morning tra

The Sunday Salon: The Back-to-Work edition

Work: I returned to work the day after Labor Day. I had fretted for a whole week about it - will I be able to hold my sleeplessness at bay, will I be able to do my work just as well as I did before maternity leave, but mainly, will I be able to last even an hour without my baby. When the morning arrived, I cried. I wasn't ready to leave her - I hated that I had wanted to go back to work, I hated that I couldn't work from home. Luckily, my mom is staying with us and is watching the baby and I am just glad that I am not leaving her with a stranger. But my mom returns home in December, and then I have to look for a trusted stranger. First day back at work was actually quite nice. It felt good to be back at a place I liked and it felt good to be useful again for something other than nursing and rocking a baby to sleep. Since I had only seven weeks of maternity leave and those seven weeks just flew by, it didn't feel like I missed much at work so it wasn't hard to ea